CT Divorce & Family Law Blog
Why You Shouldn’t Put Your Divorce Details Into AI
Don't type your questions about your family case into ChatGPT, Claude, or any AI tool. Attorney-client privilege is what makes it safe to tell your lawyer the whole, complicated, messy truth. Normally, what you say to us stays between us. In other words, a judge won't...
The Two Divorces
Every divorce is actually two processes happening at the same time. One is legal. The other is emotional. They overlap constantly, but they're not the same thing, and you don't get the advice and support your need from the same people. The legal divorce is the part...
How Far Should You Dig for Missing Assets in a Divorce?
Pretty much every divorce client who suspects their spouse is hiding assets asks some version of the same question: "how do we find it?" Their instinct is to talk to their attorney about who to hire and what types of evidence and records to chase. That's a fair...
What to Know about Connecticut’s Paid Sick Leave Law Expansion
Great news, Connecticut parents. You just gained significant new workplace protections. As of January 1, 2026, the state’s Paid Sick Leave Law now covers employers with as few as 11 employees and allows parents to use paid sick time when their child is ill or when...
What Is Alimony Based On: Understanding the Factors
Are you divorcing or separating and wondering what alimony is based on? You're not alone. In this article, Freed Marcroft's team of experienced divorce and family law attorneys will guide you through the factors that influence alimony in Connecticut, empowering you to...
The Pros and Cons of Taking Your Divorce to Trial
Divorce is rarely straightforward, and one of the most significant decisions you'll face is whether to settle your case or take it to trial. While most divorces are resolved through negotiation or mediation, some situations warrant a trial. This decision shouldn't be...
High-Net-Worth-Divorce: The Benefits of Mediation
High-net-worth divorces often come with lots of moving parts. They can be complex and time-consuming -- which can leave spouses emotionally drained. However, there's an alternative approach that offers significant benefits for both spouses: high-net-worth divorce...
The Great Divorce Cost Myth: Why You Can’t Really Compare “Costs” When You First Hire
Look, I get it. When you're hiring a divorce attorney, you want to know what it's going to cost. You call around, get retainer quotes, and think you're comparing apples to apples. Then you tell us you went with someone else because their "cost" was lower. Here's the...
Why It’s Actually Empowering That Your Divorce Lawyer Doesn’t Make Settlement Decisions For You
When clients first walk through our doors at Freed Marcroft, they often arrive feeling overwhelmed. Many express a wish: "Can't you just tell me what to do?" It's a natural response to the complexity and emotional weight of divorce. But here's something that might...
Top 10 Questions About Divorce in Connecticut (Answered by a Divorce Attorney)
If you’re thinking about divorce, your brain is probably moving a mile a minute. I (Meghan Freed) have been a Connecticut divorce attorney for more than twenty years, and I can tell you—this is completely normal. You want answers, but you also want to protect your...
Mediation vs. Litigation: What Really Affects How Long Divorce Takes?
One of the first things people ask me is: "How long will my divorce take?" They usually follow it up with a statement like, "I want it to be fast, so I’m leaning toward mediation." That makes sense on paper. Mediation sounds faster. Litigation sounds like a long, ugly...
When Separation Feels Like the Solution: Why Living Apart Can Be a Costly Trap
The fighting has stopped. The awkwardness ended. Your spouse moved out last month (or maybe you did), and for the first time in years, you can breathe in your own home. The constant tension in the house is gone. You're not walking on eggshells anymore. You can watch...
Co-Parenting After Divorce: How a Thoughtful Agreement Can Support Your Family
Divorce is a major life transition, and for parents, one of the biggest concerns is how to successfully co-parent children across two households. While the emotional challenges of divorce are significant, here's what we know: you have the power to create a...
Navigating the Complexities: Strategies for High-Net-Worth Divorce
Divorce is never simple, and when significant wealth is involved, the stakes and complexities only increase. High-net-worth divorce calls for a strategic and meticulous approach. At Freed Marcroft, we guide clients through dividing substantial assets, planning for...
What Justice in Divorce Really Means
The text comes at 2:47 PM on a Tuesday. Or maybe it's the conversation over dinner when your spouse says they "need to talk." Or perhaps it's walking in on something you never thought you'd see. However it happens, there's that moment when your life splits into Before...
The Value of Mid-Litigation Mediation with a Retired Judge: A Client Guide
If you're reading this guide, you are likely in the midst of traditional divorce litigation. The path through divorce court can be challenging, time-consuming, and emotionally draining. That's why sophisticated divorce litigation counsel often presents clients with an...
Attorney Responsibilities vs. Client Responsibilities in Divorce Cases
The Attorney-Client Relationship in Divorce: The Partnership That Drives Success Understanding the distinct roles between you and your divorce attorney isn't just a technicality – it's the foundation that can make or break your divorce experience. After guiding...
When Spending Becomes Strategy: What to Do When Your Spouse Starts Burning Through Money
It often begins subtly. A few uncharacteristic purchases. A series of luxury expenses shrugged off as "family needs." Custom suits instead of the customary Brooks Brothers. Your spouse is spending money -- a larger and more...
Untying the Knot: Exploring the Most Common Reasons for Divorce
Divorce is one of life’s most significant transitions, representing both an ending and an opportunity for new beginnings. While every couple’s story is unique, common themes often emerge in the reasons for divorce. By understanding these dynamics, you can gain insight...
From the Bench to Mediation: How Retired Judges Transform Divorce Resolution
Mediation led by a retired family court judge provides a thoughtful, empowering alternative to traditional divorce litigation. Instead of relinquishing control to the courts, mediation empowers you and your spouse to make clear, strategic decisions together, giving...