My Spouse Won’t Participate in Our Divorce—Now What?

If your spouse refuses to participate in the divorce process, it’s natural to feel stuck. You might think: What happens if they don’t respond at all? What if they agree initially but then go silent? Can I still get divorced?

Let’s clear something up right away: You can—and you will—still get divorced. This is not the end of the road, but a different beginning. Here’s how it works.

1. Your Spouse Won’t Respond to Your Requests to Begin the Divorce Process

If your spouse doesn’t respond when you try to start the divorce process, you’re not trapped. In Connecticut, it’s possible to handle even the most unresponsive spouses. Your Freed Marcroft legal team may recommend proactive steps, like formally serving your spouse with divorce papers. That way, even if your spouse never responds, the court process moves forward. You can still obtain your divorce.

Read: Divorce is About Choices

2. Your Spouse Ignores the Divorce Court

Refusing to engage in court proceedings doesn’t pause or end your divorce. Experienced attorneys can make sure the courts continue to move forward—even if your spouse never participates. Freed Marcroft will help your divorce stay on track, clearly presenting your case and moving toward a resolution, regardless of your spouse’s absence.

Read: Timeline and Legal Process Anxiety: How Long Will My Divorce Take?

3. They Agree to Mediation or Collaborative Divorce but Then Disengage

You chose mediation or collaborative divorce because you wanted a positive, respectful process. Initially, your spouse agreed, but then stopped engaging. This doesn’t mean you’re stuck waiting for them. Your Freed Marcroft legal team understands how to pivot and give you options to move your case forward through traditional channels to regain and keep your momentum toward resolution.

Read: Red Flags: Times When Divorce Mediation Might Not Be the Best Option

4. Refusal to Discuss or Respond to Settlement Offers

Settlement offers unanswered or ignored by your spouse can feel frustrating—but it’s not the end of the road. Freed Marcroft strategically manages these scenarios. If settlement efforts stall, we take strategic steps to keep your case moving forward, preparing for court while remaining open to settlement. You won’t be left waiting indefinitely.

Read: How Long Does the Other Side Have to Respond to a Settlement Offer?

Bottom Line: You Can Get Divorced

Your spouse’s refusal to participate in your divorce cannot stop you from ending your marriage and creating your own future. At Freed Marcroft, we’ll navigate every obstacle with you, providing the support and guidance you need to keep your future exactly where it belongs—in your own hands.